How to listen to a woman

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When woman talks about her problems or some event, she does NOT want you to solve her problem.
All you have to do is keep saying is yes, aha, hm, and nod your head.

It is difficult for men not to try to solve women's problems, but that is not what they want.
If you offer them solution they will still talk, regardless.

Women share emotions, and create feeling of unity by sharing (stories).
They do not tell men their problems, because they need solution. They don't.
They just need to speak to you. To SHARE.
So DO NOT try to solve her problems. In women talk, you are NOT expected to solve her problems.
Just listen.

She will be grateful, and you will achieve success in this :).
Such was this task. To listen. NOT to solve (the problem).