Open palm or closed fist
When someone "attacks you" with word, you choose either to respond with attack, or to go calmly at him/her.
Lower the tension, and try to understand why he or she is attacking you.
Maybe someone else made one angry or annoyed.
Maybe one is scared, or annoyed, or just having a bad day.
Go easy on him/her. :)
Choose open palm or closed fist when communicating with others.
How do you know which is which?
Just ask your heart.
Just follow your heart.